Dear Dreamtime, I had a dream that my current boyfriend is cheating on me with my ex-boyfriends girlfriends. Can you tell me what this means? Terri writes: Dear Dreamer, Your dreams are energy from within you that is a communication from your own all-knowing Guidance that lies within. This part of you is your own Divine Self that creates your life and I will now refer to it as I interpret this dream as your DreamSelf. As your DreamSelf communicates your dream to you, this part of you within thinks and communicates each of your dream symbols as though each dream symbol in your dream is a physical aspect, part and ability of yourself within. Understanding this, as I interpret your dream using the Dreamtime method, I interpret and explain each of your dream symbols as though each then is an aspect, power and ability of your own energy that you now possess from within. Interpreting your dream and dream symbols in this way, using the Dreamtime method, gives you an absolutely accurate interpretation of your dream because this is the way your DreamSelf within created your dream as it communicated it to you. To understand this dream, I will first give you the following information. Within each of us, we have two types of energy, male and female energy. Your male energy is the part of yourself within that represents your ability to act in life or to take action in your everyday living. In your dreams, your male energy is always represented by the dream symbol of a man or of plural men. Your female energy is the other half of your energy within. Your female energy within represents your intuition, talents, abilities and creativity in your everyday living. In your dreams, your female energy is always symbolized by the dream symbol of a female or plural females. When you dream of other people that you know in waking reality, whatever you feel and associate with them is what you are looking at within yourself. In other words, it is like looking in a mirror. The other people that you are dreaming about in the dream are representing or mirroring back to you what you should be seeing and understanding about yourself. In saying this, you need to understand the dream information being communicated to you by using them as dream symbols, is about you, not them. In this dream, you dreamed that your current boyfriend is cheating on you with your ex-boyfriends girlfriends. You did not tell me what you thought about your current boyfriend, but I will assume you are attracted to him as you are currently dating him. Your current boyfriend in this dream is symbolizing your own male energy within your everyday living situation or your ability in life right now to act or take action. In your dream he is cheating on you. The understanding of what cheating as a dream symbol action means is just that. There is some action you are doing to your Self and life where you are betraying and undermining your own talents, abilities and creativity - your female energy within. In your dream, your current boyfriend is cheating on you with your ex-boyfriends girlfriends. You did not tell me what you think of your ex-boyfriend, but since you are no longer dating him, I will assume that you did not like him anymore and broke it off. Your ex-boyfriend is symbolizing again, your male energy within, your own ability to act and take action in your life. This time, the ex-boyfriend is symbolizing some action that you have taken in the past regarding your own intuition and creativity, female energy, where you did not like the outcome, possibly it was negative, so you stopped doing this in your life. The girlfriends of your ex-boy friend are symbolizing your female energy within or your own talents, abilities and creativity. Your current boyfriend is symbolizing and representing the cheating or betrayal of your own inner worth by some thinking or action your are now taking about yourself in your everyday living situation. Putting the above understandings together, this dream is saying that currently, some activity you are taking or thinking that is negative regarding your own self-worth and creativity, you thought you put this behind you. But in reality you are currently repeating it over again. To understand how this may be occurring, possibly, for example, in the past, you used to think of your own inner self-worth negatively, realized it was not getting you anywhere you wanted to go, stopped it, but now it is creeping up again into your life. Or possibly, you took some action where you were not using your talents and abilities to their fullest potential, cheating yourself so to say, but now in some form, you are repeating this again action over again in your life. Your dream symbols as energy are the energy that is creating your everyday, three-dimensional Self and Life. This means that you dream first and then go onto create and manifest what your dream is communicating within your everyday Self and life. In stating this, your dreams and dream symbols not only tell and communicate exactly what is going on within your life, but as your own actual energy from within, go on in your next day and days after dreaming them to draw in more and similar energy to create and address whatever your dream is bringing up. This means that you should look in your future days and months after dreaming this dream to be more aware of how it is your are undermining your own inner knowing, intuition, self-worth and many talents and abilities by negative thinking and action. In doing this, I feel you will then have your answer to what this important dream is bringing up! Your DreamSelf that gave you this dream and that creates your dreams for you is not separate from you. Your DreamSelf is the same you that lives within you during your waking reality. Your DreamSelf however, is a supernatural and unlimited part of yourself within that creates your everyday life and which knows and has access to all things! It knows exactly what you need to do in your life to be whole and fulfilled from within. You can trust its advice! Please e-mail me back when you get this and let me know if there was anything that you did not understand in this dream interpretation. I would love to have a response back from you of whether you feel this dream interpretation that I have done relates to you and your life or not! Thank you again for submitting your dream for interpretation. Good Luck with this and Good Dreaming! Terri Ullstrup The Dreamtime www.dreaminterpretation.com